That awkward moment when the check comes... and she insists on splitting it. What does it really mean when a Japanese woman wants to go "betsu betsu"? While in some cultures it might signal a lack of romantic interest, in Japan, it's often the exact opposite.

It can be a powerful statement of her independence, her seriousness about the date, and her desire to build a relationship on an equal footing. It's a sign of respect.

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Understanding these moments is key to seeing her true character.

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